As a thirty-year-old woman, I've always been intrigued by the idea of BDSM. Ever since I was younger, I used to imagine what it would be like to be tied up and teased by someone who knew exactly how to push my buttons. It wasn't until recently that I finally started exploring this side of myself in earnest.
I first got into wearing lipstick because it made me feel sexy and confident, but now I use it as a way to show off my sensuality and express my dominance during playtime with my partner. My hair is usually tied back in a messy bun or half-updo, but when we're playing together, I like to let it down so that he can run his hands through it while he teases me.
As for the whips and gags, they're a big part of what turns me on. The feeling of power and control that comes with using a whip or a flogger is incredible, but it's nothing compared to the rush I get when my partner binds and gags me during our scenes. There's something so erotic about being completely helpless in their hands, unable to do anything except moan and beg for more.
When we play together, we usually start out in the bedroom, but sometimes we like to move things into different areas of the house or even outside if it's warm enough. We both love black leather and white clothing, so we often wear those colors when we're playing together. It feels like such an intense, erotic contrast that really gets us going.
Overall, I feel like my love of BDSM has only made me more confident and comfortable in my own skin. And while it can be intimidating to share this side of myself with someone else at first, finding a partner who is just as into it has been incredibly liberating.